June 2002 Connections

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All the Petals of the Rose Part II(Seminar Event)
What’s Your Number?
June 2002 Events
Connections & KVNF: Community Voices
Friday Night Forum: The Earth, Energy and Us


All the Petals of the Rose Part II

by Joshua Hayward

This month’s interview with Dr. Judith Boice is the second of a two-part series presenting an upcoming event of imperative importance, sponsored by the Whole Life Network. Last month we visited with Evan Hodkins, Director of the School of Alchemy in Paonia, Co. Along with Hodkins, Dr, Judith Boice will be co-facilitating, “All the Petals of the Rose”, an event with a loving intention of touching the essence of the Western Slope Community with healing, wholeness and unity. This ‘joining of hearts and minds’ seeks to foster joyous participation, song and meditation, with deep inner searching, will highlight this powerful, uplifting event. “All the Petals of the Rose” will address our need to align with the changes we are going through, individually, in local community, and in the greater community of the planet Earth.

I have had the privilege of working with Dr. Boice on the KVNF radio show, “Connections”, and on our live show in Montrose, “The Friday Night Forum”. What impresses me the most about her is her broad, integrative view of life that pays remarkable attention to detail. Boice is articulate and compassionate, as well as informed and worldly. She is voyager, activist, and mother.

Since “All the Petals of the Rose” will be an important community-oriented event, how appropriate it is that Dr. Boice would have so much experience in that area. She has lived in several ‘intentional communities’ and ancient communities, such as Findhorn; Scotland, the Bear Tribe, the Shawnee Tribe, the Aborigines of the western desert of Australia, and Oberlin College; Ohio, the first college ever to adopt a co-op structure. Of the six books Boice has authored, “At One with All Life”, tells about her wealth of experience gained from living with people in a different context than most of us are used to.

Dr. Boice moved here to Colorado about a year ago from Portland, Oregon, and she has set up both her home and her practice in Montrose, Co. An acupuncturist and a naturopath, Boice authors a column on health advice in Transitional Times and lectures on various health topics, including menopause. She also has a degree in music and currently plays in a local musical group called the “Farmers’ Daughters”.

What background do you bring to this vital event?
If you want to look at all the different components and pieces that will contribute to the event, one is I have a background as a musician. I think that helps me sensitize to healing on lots of different levels. Listening. I’m hoping the part of the event will address is attunement and the ability to listen very, very deeply. To look within for guidance. The aim is to reach what I call ‘right relationship’. Living in right relationship with others, and more than just other human beings.

As well as being a musician, I have a long, strong background of working with the environment. From a political viewpoint, and also from a spiritual aspect.

You authored a book about the environment, from those earlier, political days?
Yes. “The Art of Daily Activism”, which was my way of reframing activism. A lot of what I heard from proponents of advocacy, or activism, was trying to pass legislation to get ‘someone else’ to do the work, or someone else to do the regulations. But I was looking for a more fundamental shift that people focus on creating the kind of world they wanted to live in, instead of being reactive. Most environmental and advocacy groups in general react to legislation, or react to proposed changes. So, for example, the Sierra Club reacts to the damming of the valley where Yosemite is, or reacts to uranium mining in the Grand Canyon.

So these groups are reacting to what they see is wrong, externally, and you propose instead to focus on creating what is desirable?
To focus energy on creating, rather than enforcing stopgap measures. That does not mean that the stopgap measures are not important. It is absolutely important that people are doing that part.

You are just coming from a different perspective.
Right. And ideally, I would like to see us coming from a larger framework, for that larger framework says you choose your own battles. And in addition, you focus daily activities so that in your day to day choices you support the kind of world you want to live in.

You have said that the kind of world we might want includes a community much larger than one consisting of only human beings?
Prejudice is understood in a much more limited sense than it will be. Now we understand racial and sexual prejudice, but we don’t have a handle on the prejudice of anthropocentrism. When people think about community, they are usually focusing only on human inhabitants, but actually all elements of creation are important members of the community, and if we get to an important principle of ‘attunement’, that would be to listen very deeply. It is my perspective that if people listen deeply, practice attunement, it means listening to all aspects of life.

How does one listen deeply?
One of the important aspects is the ongoing surrender of the “personal’ desire. Usually the first answer that comes back (when listening) is the superficiality of personality desire. So listen at that level and let that level go. Usually the first answer that comes back is a very self-serving level. There is a process of letting the first answer go, and then deepening and quieting even more and listening again. And maybe four or five times more. Each cycle of letting go brings a deeper level of wisdom to come forward.

A part of what you are talking about is attaining to a level of patience most people in Western Civilization is not used to?
No, but some are. I’ll give you an example. This was when I lived with the Bear Tribe. When the community started they spent six months living on the land in tents in quiet listening, in sweat lodges and pipe ceremonies. They did a lot of listening before they did anything on the land. Before they started constructing anything. That kind of listening leads to a much different (kind of) development of the land, and it leads to different kind of interaction among the people.

Let’s move on to the event itself.
The thing we haven’t mentioned yet that relates to the event is that there are ways of building human community. Another piece of what is happening globally is that with all the shift and changes happening internationally, around the planet, there is a polarization of the older order and the newer order, between the materialistic, greedy, power-hungry culture, and the other pole is this new form of community that is trying to birth. It is more focussed on human interaction and sharing at the level of ceremony, at the level of art, singing and dancing, and literally in their physical bodies bringing harmony through their actions. Physically expressing harmony. Also a sharing of resources. There is no reason ten people need to have ten lawnmowers when they all could share one, for instance. Now, another thing for this sort of community that goes beyond the idea of ‘like-mindedness’, or even ‘like-spiritual’. That community would ideally include people of different social, spiritual, and political backgrounds, different ages and life orientation. There seems to be an epidemic of loneliness. There are a lot of people, many who are single, who feel isolated and are awaiting others to invite them to do things. This is an extension of our culture’s (tendency toward) individualism. So if we go too far into individualism, we end up feeling lonely. What is coming is a culture that still allows individualism with collectivism.

What you are talking about is ‘unity in diversity’ instead of ‘unity in sameness’. The Dali Lama and others have been speaking of this.
Such a culture, or community, would require respect and tolerance, and not just surrounding yourself with people who share your specific beliefs, ideas, and socio-spiritual background. Its easy to talk about unity in diversity, but it is challenging to be inclusive. When you live and work in community, it is a microcosm of the world. You are not suddenly insulated from the difficulties of the wider world. They are suddenly right there in your face, in ‘microcosm’. The power and strength in community is in commitment to work through things and to continue respecting and working with these people.

Patience and tolerance.
And developing some skills to work through conflict. Also, if there can be a common spiritual practice that helps greatly in getting through things.

About the event, how are you going to create the atmosphere of community?
We are going to use music, meditation, attunement exercises, and we are hoping to culminate with an optional ceremony Saturday night, so some of the things we do Saturday during the day will lead into ceremony to begin working together on a spiritual basis. There will be self-reflective times and there will be group interactive times, music, and I imagine, Sufi dancing.

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What’s Your Number?

by Linda Frazee

When was the last time you felt fully alive? When you walk into a room filled with strangers, where do you focus your attention? These are just two of some fifty sample interview questions asked by an Enneagram teacher to determine your Enneagram point or number.

Few people can answer all of the questions, although there are no right or wrong answers. That’s because few people have thought about themselves, their behavior, and motivation in quite the same way as the Enneagram reveals.

The titles of the nine Enneagram points are as follows: #1-Perfectionist, #2-Helper, #3-Performer, #4-Tragic Romantic Artist, #5-Observer, #6-Trooper, #7-Adventurer, #8-Boss and #9-Mediator.

At first glance this system looks just like another typology method. However, the real gift of this system is delivered by observing yourself more deeply, both your moment by moment thoughts and discovering your “fixations,” as they are called in Enneagram language.

Our fixations constitute our habitual way of looking at the world and relating to other people. The point of studying our personality type is to recognize our habitual perceptual and relationship strategies and learn we can grow beyond them. It is generally agreed we cannot change or fully transcend our personality type during our lifetime, but we can become less limited by our type’s fixed constellation of traits. The experience of our own personalities can be transformed from a lifelong trap to a loose fitting style that allows us to try on other perspectives and ways of learning.

In addition, the Enneagram of personality teaches us to see beyond the limitations to the unrealized spiritual potential within. Every number has a virtue as well as a fixation or vice. For instance, the #6 fixation is fear and the virtue is courage. Improved meditations, prayers and a deeper sense of peace are outcomes from the application of this sacred psychology.

The Enneagram was introduced to the West by the mystic G. I. Gurdjieff who had the symbol painted on the floor of his institute for the harmonious development of man. Strictly speaking, the Enneagram is a nine pointed star, a symbol of ancient and uncertain origins, that may have once served as a mathematical map of cosmic reality. Most scholars trace it back at least 2,500 years to the secret Sufi society known as the Sarmouni Brotherhood.

Some of the earliest American students of the Enneagram were Jesuit Priests who sparked a rapid dissemination of the knowledge in the Jesuit community. The first American book on the Enneagram was published in 1984 and titled “A Journey of Self-Discovery.” It was authored by a Roman Catholic teacher, Maria Beesing. Currently there are many Enneagram teachers throughout the United States.

Mainstream applications for the Enneagram are: Psychology, education, business, communication, healing arts, medicine, and spiritual awareness. Since the 1994 Stanford Enneagram Conference attended by 1,700 people from 14 different countries, the Enneagram has spread worldwide.

There are many benefits of pursuing self-discovery through the Enneagram. The most important is understanding your own motivation: Not just your behavior, but your motivation. Why you do what you do is underlying all of your feelings, inner thought processes, and ultimately your behavior. What might happen if we could really touch into our motivation and work with the underlying forces that move and have their being in the deeper parts of our psyche? The Enneagram can provide that knowledge.

The Enneagram
An Introduction & Workshop by Linda Frazee

Introduction to The Enneagram
Friday, July 12, 2002 - 6:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. - $10
The Center for Religious Science - 658 Howard St., Delta
To register or for further info, call Sheila 249-1535

The Enneagram allows us to identify the central motivation of our character, our own biases, blind spots, & the intentions of others. These fundamental insights can initiate high levels of compassion for others & bring into awareness the parts of our personality that stand in the way of our enlightenment. Enneagram suggests a technology that allows us to use our fixations as a bridge to higher consciousness. This introductory evening will give an overview of all nine points of the Enneagram, the general philosophy behind the system, & present a panel of a specific Enneagram type speaking about their perceptions of the world.

The Enneagram Workshop
Saturday, July 13, 2002 - 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
$60 pre-registration or $65.00 at the door
The Center for Religious Science - 658 Howard St., Delta
To register or for further info, call Sheila 249-1535

This workshop promotes development of a deeper compassion & understanding of self & others. Each Enneagram type will be represented by panels of individuals who will share how their particular “view of the human condition” affects their lives. There will also be a focus on what has helped them grow personally & in their relationship with the Divine. This method of listening to others is called the “oral tradition.” Participants will have an opportunity to be a part of the panels with which they resonate, or be a part of the audience.

Linda Frazee is an international professional speaker, consultant and workshop facilitator. She has been presenting workshops on spirituality and self-growth for fifteen years. She is a specialist in using transpersonal psychology to assist in enhancing intuition, accessing their deepest gifts and staying connected to Essence in everyday living. Linda is a certified Enneagram teacher.

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June Events!

*June 21 @ 1 PM, Rocky Mountain Dowers Assn. monthly meet, For information call Polly 240-4442.

*June 27 @ 12 Noon Chris Holstrom of the Tomten Institute, a non-profit organization near Telluride, will be featured on Whole Life Connections KVNF with hosts Arlyn Macdonald and Joshua Hayward.

*June 28 @ 7:30 p.m. The Earth, Energy and Us will be the topic of the next WLN Friday Night Forum at the Delta Montrose Electric Association Community Room, 63.00 Road in Montrose. A donation of $5.00, $4.00 for Whole Life Network members, is requested at the door. For more info call 325-1545.

*July 1 @ 6:30 Monthly WLN Board of Directors meeting at WLN office meeting room.

*July 12 @ 6:30 Introduction to the Enneagram at The Center for Religious Science, 658 Howard St, Delta. For more info call 249-1535. A WLN Co-Sponsored Event

*July 13 @ 9 am The Enneagram Workshop at The Center for Religious Science, 658 Howard St, Delta. For more info call 249-1535. A WLN Co-Sponsored Event

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Connections & KVNF: Community Voices

Sensitivity to our environment is now vital to our well being. A better relationship with our planet can lead to healthier relationships with people and happier lives.

Join co-hosts Arlyn Macdonald and Joshua Hayward at noon on KVNF’s midday edition, Thursday, June 27, 2002, when they interview Chris Holstrom of the Tomten Institute, a non-profit organization near Telluride.

Tomten educates people about organic gardening, recycling, and permaculture techniques, offering classes in these and other related subjects. In the show, Chris, will be telling us about Tomten’s new restaurant recycling program, and she will also discuss how educating children in Earth-friendly matters is both rewarding and vital to our development as a culture. Be sure to tune in to KVNF on Thursday, June 27, to stay ‘connected’!

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Friday Night Forum: The Earth, Energy and Us

by Joshua Hayward

We live in a time when technology is advancing almost faster than we can breathe and current events seem to be spinning out of control. Is our world accelerating past our ability to comprehend, or keep up with? What are the implications such vast change upon our environment, and hence our lives?

Our situation on Planet Earth is perhaps not as complicated as it seems. When we look at our relationship with our environment, the key factors are energy and resources. It has become evident there is a vital need to stay in balance with our environment, the Earth. Responsible, economically viable, approaches to the world problems of energy and resources are necessary not only to our quality of life, but to our survival.

On June 28, 2002, at 7:30PM, the Friday Night Forum will be presenting a diverse panel who will demonstrate and discuss various methods and means of developing and utilizing energy and resources. From ‘voluntary simplicity’ to geothermal technology and bio-fuel; from new, innovative, community recycling to environmentally friendly housing; from techniques in ‘permaculture’ to more consciousness in our interpersonal relationships, the Friday Night Forum will fill you with scintillating ideas on how to achieve a better state of sustainable living on our Planet Earth.

Representing the Tomten Institute, a non-profit organization near Telluride, Chris Holstrom will be on hand to discuss organic gardening, recycling with a new twist, permaculture, and how informed children can make a difference. Ken Hodges, a wholistic dentist in Telluride who is building an ‘Earthship’, will be presenting his work in developing ‘bio-fuel’. Founder of Smart Shelter, Gary Duncan, who has amassed an amazing wealth of information, will open your eyes to alternative housing and other vital environmental concepts. Representing the Delta Montrose Electric Association, Nikki Schmalz will make a presentation on Geothermal Energy. It will be both interesting and beneficial to see how a large corporation is responsibly developing energy resources. Also on hand will be Nancy Jacques, environmental author of ‘Heartcore Alternative’, from Durango. Jacques has also been a therapist and counselor for many years, and she will discuss a very personal approach to living consciously on our planet.

I will be present to guide the evening to a high level of information and entertainment. A lively discussion between panelists will ensue, and questions and comments from audience members will punctuate the evening’s ceremonies. Please don’t miss this uplifting show at the DMEA on Friday, June 28, 2002, starting at 7:30 PM and ending at 9:30 PM. Find out how we can create a better, healthier world!

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