March 2005 Connections

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Newest of the New at the Expo  (Whole Life Network Release)
Lecture Series to Resume  (Whole Life Network Release)
Anger and the Indigo Child  (by Laurel Ann Browne)
Structural Integration and Children  (by Tria Eshelbrenner)
Remembering Aztlán  (by Art Goodtimes)
Dea's Kitchen: Beautiful Dahl  (by Dea Jacobson)
No More Makeup Part II  (by Jill Burkey)
Captivating – Harold McCoy  (Whole Life Network Release)
Peaceful Contributions for the Soul  (by Kathy Gates)
Enhancing Fertility  (by Anne Calzada Herbalist)
When Shouts Replace Whispers  (by Earl Sires)
ReConnections: A Look Back  (Whole Life Network Release)
Risings  (by Dr. Jerry Overton)


Newest of the New at the Expo
Whole Life Network Release

The world is changing at an ever-increasing speed, and, thus, new wellness ideas, new truths, new connections, new networks, and new people are manifesting in our lives.  Where better to set all of this in motion than The Whole Life and Learning Expo, A Journey in Conscious Living?   This is the one event on the Western Slope where you are most likely to get the flavor of all of the newest in health and mind-body-spirit connectedness.  Saturday March 5th at the Montrose Pavilion is when it all happens.  The hours are 9:30 am to 4:30 pm and the fun is non-stop.   Here are some samplings of the many attractions that will be yours to explore and enjoy.

You’ll want to check out your current state of wellness by visiting with Dr. Suzanne Sutherland, L.Ac. who uses acupuncture and Chinese herbs to treat pain or illness.  She is effective in treating sports injuries, chronic pain and fatigue, migraines and women’s health.  Or perhaps it is a chiropractic treatment that you need.  Brett Edecker, D.C. of Canyon Chiropractic will be on hand to give advice and care to all from newborns to grandparents.  Sherree Williams of Eckert is a certified Rapid Eye Technician.  Rapid Eye Technology (RET) is a natural healing modality that simulates the same processing mechanisms the body uses during deep sleep states of REM sleep to heal trauma and route information to the brain.  Sherree will also bring her first book, a poetry collection, entitled “Lighting Through The Stars, written under her pen name, Naomi Raine.

Are you one who can see auras?  If not, you’ll want to visit Rabbi Jeff who has the latest in Aura Photo technology.  His photos are accompanied by a detailed report on your charkas and an explanation of what your colors mean in your social life, career and finances, health, well-being and growth and relationships.  LaffinCoyote Yoga and Pilates is the original name of the service provided by Donna Mayry.  Her approach to teaching yoga is unique and will eliminate all excuses you have in your mind about why you can’t participate.  Master Touch Living Systems and Solar Energy International will address environmental issues at the Expo. Darrell Weingard will show us what is new in air and water purification for the home and office.

Plan to spend the whole day with us!  As you enter be sure to register for door prizes donated by our vendors.  Shop around, listen to the music of David and Tamara Hauze, dine on the lunches available at the Pavilion, network with your friends and enjoy the energy of like-minded spirits.  One more thing: The Whole Life Network is a non-profit membership organization, and we depend on the support of our membership to sponsor our events.  We will have a table at the entryway doors so you can find out more about what we are doing and you may want to join our ‘family’.

 

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Lecture Series to Resume
Whole Life Network Release

It’s not important what you call it: be it Friday Night Forum, Wednesday Night Wisdom, or something else that is brand new.  The important thing is that The Whole Life Network will continue to offer in 2005 our series of informative and educational presentations that are free to the public.  This year the events will be held at the Stone Clan Educational Center located at 736 65.30 Road in Montrose.  Jennefer Halback, our new member of the Board of Directors of The Whole Life Network, will be the hostess of the presentations.   To boost attendance, our current plans are to hold these events during the lunch hour on weekdays.  Whole Life Network members that found it inconvenient to attend the evening presentations now have their chance to participate and network with kindred spirits.  To get our plans for the year underway, we are looking for volunteers to give talks on their personal areas of expertise and experience.  Do you have a topic that you are willing to share with the holistic community?  Be generous with both your time and your talent!   Schedule up your own event by calling Jennifer today at 252-8385.

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Anger and the Indigo Child
Transform Anger into Love
by Laurel Ann Browne

Our children are the future.  When they are taught who they are at a very young age and encouraged to live according to their true nature, they live a very different life than what we have lived.  They learn to love themselves and to move through life with greater ease than most of us have ever known.  They do not have to go through the de-conditioning process we adults have experienced.  Indigo children are unique, gifted, physic and not easily taught by our intentional or unintentional conditioning by siblings, relatives, teachers, leaders, friends, acquaintances and strangers.  They KNOW who they are from the moment of birth.  Their full spiritual conscious awareness rebels at our traditional methods of discipline, teaching or living.  They are aware of the universal love that is unconditional: their ability to see the truth or unfairness is acute.  They rebel, are angered about our treatment of them and for our lack of recognition of who they are.  Well-meaning and loving parents and teachers are bewildered by this defiant behavior.  Parenting is not easy, even with the best of tools.

FACT: 50% of all ADHD children have a problem with difficult behavior.
FACT:  75% of defiant children above the age of eight will still be defiant later in life without the self-empowerment approach.
FACT:  95% of these children are INDIGOS who do not conform.
FACT:  These children can transform anger into love by loving alternative problem-solving solutions with a new approach.  As we begin to recognize this need for change within ourselves, we will address specific types of Indigos in a very different way.  There are four types, and they all respond differently.

We are forming a support group for all parents, teachers and professionals who are interested in sharing, caring and teaching.

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Structural Integration and Children
by Tria Eshelbrenner

When most people think of structural integration or "Rolfing", they usually envision an adult who is getting treated and yet children can receive just as much, if not more, benefit from the work. Structural integration is bodywork that lengthens and frees tissue. Even children develop problem areas in their bodies.  These problem areas do not function easily or correctly. This can cause an increase in growing pains, attention problems, emotional issues, clumsiness. . . the list goes on.

These patterns don't need to become "entrenched" or "engrained" in the constitution of our children.  Early intervention can affect the structure of a child's growing body. This can result in a healthier and a happier child. "There is no way to separate the physical child from his mental and spiritual self. . .. A child who slumps physically, slumps mentally and emotionally."  Thus when a child receives structural integration and achieves a greater physical balance. . . that child quite naturally feels more at ease inwardly and displays a greater level of confidence and self esteem.

 There was a study done in the '70's on the effects of putting children through structural integration.  "The reported results found increased confidence, better verbal expression, more self control, and less destructive behavior, as well as improvement in the children's overall physical, psychological and behavioral patterns, even years later." Imagine that!  These are results that most all of us could use. How much better it would be if we had come into adulthood with "better verbal expression, more self control, and less destructive behavior".

I would like to conclude with a story of a 4-year-old child that Ida Rolf treated. This little boy had been diagnosed with Legg Perthes disease. The doctors wanted to put him in a cast for 5 years; others said it would be likely that he would be in a wheelchair by the time he was 20. Fortunately for the boy, his mother chose to give Ida Rolf’s method a try. Rolf treated the boy for several months. Tim Barrett (the little boy) is now a 40-something year old surfer with no disabilities from his childhood "illness".  This is quite an example. . . especially since the doctors thought he might end up in a wheelchair.

Childhood issues that can be addressed by structural integration-scoliosis -club feet -growing pains -lack of confidence -emotional distress -postural problems -attention problems.

Tria Eshelbrenner Massage Therapist (970) 596- 8247 is a member of the Board of Directors of the Whole Life Network and operates Better Bodyworks in Montrose.

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Remembering Aztlán
a column of poetry, culture & spirit
by Art Goodtimes

RESVERATROL … My Moab buddy Lance Christie has written a great paper on the health aspects of wine. I’ve removed the technical citations, but can share them with anyone interested, as every claim is backed up with peer-reviewed research. Given the budding wine industry in Utah and Western Colorado, and our own wine festival, I thought it appropriate for this column (with Lance’s permission) … “Resveratrol is a polyphenolic compound, a member of a class of flavonoids known for their antioxidant activity, found in the skins and seeds of grapes. It is present in significant amounts in red wines which are made with the skins of grapes; typically white wines are made with juice only and do not contain significant resveratrol (1-5% was found in red). Different grape cultivars contain different amounts; the highest concentration is found in Pinot Noir, averaging 5.13 mg/liter. [My favorite variety!] … David Sinclair of Harvard University and others have demonstrated that resveratrol stimulates an enzyme in yeast that increases that organism's lifespan by 70%. Members of this family of enzymes regulate lifespan of cells in humans as well as worms. When Sinclair tested resveratrol on human cells, it activated the human cell-survival enzyme. This same enzyme is activated by restricting caloric intake, which is proven to increase longevity in all mammals including humans. Authors theorize that this effect comes from resveratrol suppressing tumor suppressor gene p53, which would otherwise cause rapid apoptosis (cell death) of DNA-damaged cells, thus affording the cell time to repair free radical damage to its DNA … Resveratrol has strong antioxidant activity (neutralizing free radicals which would otherwise oxidize cell components), increases nitric oxide to relax blood vessels, and reduces abnormal blood clotting and blockages. Resveratrol also aids heart health through its anti-arrhythmic effects, increasing blood levels of HDL cholesterol, and inhibiting platelet aggregation. A study of stroke correlates in 13,329 men and women in Copenhagen over 16 years found ‘intake of wine is associated with lower risk of stroke’ attributing this effect to flavonoids and tannins in the wine. Besides acting as an antioxidant directly, Resveratrol activates the heme oxygenase systems in the cells. Heme oxygenase degrades the heme molecule which carries iron and therefore oxygen in the blood. Free heme in cells acts as a pro oxidant; resveratrol reduces free heme by activating heme oxygenase … In the autopsied brains of Alzheimer's patients are the hallmark pathological changes caused by free radical activity, including DNA damage and oxidized proteins and lipids. In a study of 442 elderly patients in Basel, Switzerland, researchers found a direct correlation between memory retention and the blood levels of two antioxidants: alpha-tocepherol (Vitamin E) and beta-carotene (precursor to Vitamin A). Resveratrol protected human neuroblastoma and epithelial cells from oxidative stress by beta-amyloid. Harvard’s Sinclair has been studying use of resveratrol in treatment of Alzheimer's and expects first stage clinical trials to start in 2005. Beta-amyloid peptide, the mis-cut protein which causes brain damage in Alzheimer's disease, does so by being a free radical oxidizing agent, by combining with a receptor site in mitochondria which blocks energy production in the cell, and by de-regulating the neurotransmitter glutamate at the receptor site on the neuron … Resveratrol has inhibited both the growth of cancer cells, and has increased the death rate of existing cancer cells. Resveratrol appears useful in blocking the onset and progression of estrogen-related cancers such as breast and prostate cancers because it is particularly effective in maintaining normal estrogen activity. It has been shown to block the ability of cancer cells to metastasize to bone, particularly in pancreas, kidney, and breast cancers. Resveratrol is protective against skin and stomach cancer, liver disease, inflammation, and pain … Resveratrol has been suspected by many to be the principal protective factor in red wine responsible for the ‘French Paradox’ -- that the French eat such a high-fat diet and suffer low incidence of the forms of heart disease associated with high-fat diets in the U.S. (Another factor in the paradox is the nature of the fat consumed: olive oil in France vs. saturated animal and soybean-derived trans fats in the U.S.) … Dr. David Williams says that current research establishes 20 mg a day of resveratrol as providing maximum health benefits. Red wine averages 0.2 mg of resveratrol per ounce, and peanuts about 0.1 mg per ounce. Consumption of four liters of Pinot Noir would yield 20.4 mg of resveratrol … Resveratrol is also found in an oriental folk medicine: root extracts of Polygonum cuspidatum; in two species of lily, Vetatrum gradiflorium and Vetatrum formosanum; and in groundnuts.”

EUGENE RUGGLES … For years I read his poems in the Haight-Ashbury Literary Journal (HALJ) & loved them. Political. Deep image surreal. And yet woven into the actual hard edge city moment. Street Zen … “steam rises from my full plate, / my feet are dry and warm inside every morning, steam rises from our magnificent civic center / around their cardboard. It is the morning of burying / these rags of ours. We have roads of bread. Come home.” -from Homeless: San Francisco 1990 … Ruggles died last summer. Legendary North Beach poet Jack Mueller (taking hermitage on Log Hill Village these days) did a great poem for Gene that appeared in the Telluride Watch. And HAJL did their most recent issue in Ruggles’ honor (v. 23, #2, www.haightashbury.org/poetry.html) … His Talking Gourd poem this week, reprinted with permission, is a beautiful in memoriam. As for the “woman” he talks about in it, that’s the radical Catholic worker Dorothy Day.

 

THE TALKING GOURD

 

Last Note To My Children

 

My dear children,
my dear breath, I address this
to both of us –
It is not how much
you own, control or influence,
or how much you gain,
that will speak of your stay here,
it is how much
you contribute that will say
if you were here or not.
You see, I pray
the most sacred word
I can leave you is community.
I take this from a woman named Day.
So when grief comes to you
do not ask, why me
instead of someone else,
and when a blessing comes to you,
kneel before its light
and break it into pieces,
to give more of it to those
who have never had one. Be here.

With love.      Your father.

p.s. The ten windows of my fingers open every morning to praise the long fields of your days.
Not even death will close them.

© 2004 Art Goodtimes

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Dea's Kitchen: Beautiful Dahl
by Dea Jacobson

Just today I lunched on lentils, lovingly cooked into a thick, spicy stew by my friend Jan, who, though she was home with a cold, regularly attends my Friday "Chair Yoga" class at the old Cedar Mesa Club House. The women who attend the class (along with a couple of guys, including Jan's husband, who brought the stew) have taken turns preparing delicious soups and fresh breads that stay warm in the oven while we do our workout, breathing exercises and meditation. An old pot belly stove, tended religiously by club member Jo, who shows up early to stoke it, radiates cheerfully in the thinly-insulated club house, driving out the dank morning chill. The yoga and soup ritual began the first Friday of 2005, and we hope to continue for a long time to come. The food and fellowship that follows class fills my soul to the brim and I carry that wonderful energy with me throughout the following week as I trek over 200 miles on my teaching circuit. Love is the secret ingredient in every wonderful meal.

Now, about beautiful dahl (pronounced "doll"). In India, "dahl" refers to pea or bean soup, though in translation, Faith Stone says in Yoga Kitchen that dahl means "split". The name is also used in Indian cooking to define a cooked lentil or bean dish. Because beans, peas and lentils are a very important compliment to grains, the average Indian meal always contains a dish of some sort of dahl. The proteins of grains and beans are complimentary, combining to form a complete protein, one in which all the essential amino acids are present in proper proportions for the human body to use.

Himalayan Mountain Cookery by Martha Ballentine, instructs that, when serving dahl, only a small amount is needed to balance a meal, as too much will make one feel heavy after eating. Dahl is almost always served with basic spices such as tumeric, coriander, cumin, or a combination of spices known loosely as garam masala or curry, of which there are several kinds. In cold mountain climates, adding a dash of cayenne increases the digestive fire and can help reduce the tendency of dahl to form gas. For those accustomed to meat dishes, dahl, when cooked into a hearty stew, as was our lunch, will stick to the ribs and be very hearty and satisfying!

Chana dahl, what we call chick peas, or garbanzos, is the main ingredient in our recipe, compliments of Jan, the lentil stew cook. Chana means "pebble" and is what the dried beans resemble. When cooking dried chana dahl, rinse first and sort out any stones. Partial sprouting at room temperature for 24-48 hours makes them easier to cook and digest. Or you can, as in our recipe, use canned garbanzos, which will greatly shorten preparation time. The quantities used in this recipe will serve a large group of friends, so reduce as you see fit! The spice combination used in garam masala, is found in specialty and health food stores. I will include a recipe for making your own in a future article.

Chana Masala

4 cans garbanzo beans- 2 drained, 2 not.
1 medium onion, coursely chopped
1 TBSP. olive oil
2 - 4 TBSP. lemon juice
2 – 4 garlic cloves, minced
2 TBSP. garam masala or curry powder
2 – 4 TBSP. paprika

Saute the onion in the olive oil and when limp but not brown, add garlic and mix well. Add all the garbanzos and garam or curry and stir until the "yellow" color comes up. Then add the lemon juice and paprika. Keep stirring until it thickens, about 20-25 minutes. Avoid overcooking or stirring too vigorously, as you don't want the garbanzos to break up or disintegrate. This is great served over steaming basmati rice. Enjoy!

Remember to add liberal amounts of the secret ingredient, LOVE, and bless your good fortune for the gift of a healthy meal!

Dea Jacobson is the director of Blue Heron Yoga, and a registered yoga instructor with the Yoga Alliance. She offers classes and workshops in Delta and Mesa counties and is a licensed Religious Science Practitioner. She can be reached at P.O. Box 95 in Cedaredge, 81413, at 970 856-4905, or at  www.blueheronyoga.com.

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No More Makeup Part II
by Jill Burkey

My Mom and I were talking about my column from last month where I made the argument that women shouldn't have to wear makeup.  Her response was, "But we get to wear makeup!  Guys aren't as lucky, and they don't have the option."  I guess I've been busy looking at the world through my women's empowerment glasses, which is the slant I'm supposed to take in this column, and one which comes naturally to me, and it never occurred to me that women actually enjoy getting dolled up.  I guess I used to enjoy it, but I have so little time for myself right now that I'm not going to spend it on what I currently view as a superficial endeavor.  But why not?  I spend lots of time beautifying my house and making sure my kids look nice, so why don't I take time for myself?  I pay attention to my clothes and my hair, so what's different about my face?  I guess if that's the kind of thing you enjoy and it makes you feel good and feminine, there's no harm in it.  I just don't think a woman should feel like she can't leave the house if she doesn't have her "face on," or that she needs to "paint her face," as if it's a blank canvas with nothing to offer, or worse, something that needs to be masked.

My latest dilemma has been the thought of the looming swimsuit season.  After looking at pictures from last summer of myself in a bikini, I know that I either need to get a new bathing suit or a new body before the snow melts.  I don't know which idea is more distasteful to me; trying on bathing suits in front of a three-way mirror, or climbing onto a stationary bike.

Well, whether or not anybody can see it, I know I can stand to lose 15 pounds.  I also know I need to start exercising and besides the initial unpleasantness that conjures up in my mind, there are several positives I can think of too.  I'm sure working out would make me feel better about myself, give me more energy, and make me healthier.  Plus, it would be a nice break from the kids while they have fun doing something else.  I'd love to try yoga or pilates, something to combine my spiritual self with my physical self.  Osteoporosis runs in my family too, so I really want to get that strength training going.  After all, empowered women are supposed to be strong, right?

Jill Burkey is a freelance writer and stay-at-home mother of 2 young children  She has a B.S. in English, Business, and Secondary Education from Nebraska Wesleyan University and provides professional writing services through Word Wise, Ink.  She can be reached at 255-7348 or at burkey@frontier.net.

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Captivating – Harold McCoy
Whole Life Network Release

Our community is still buzzing following the completion of the workshop on Valentine’s weekend by Harold McCoy of the Ozark Research Institute.  Those in attendance have some wonderful memories to share.  Everyone felt that they had known Harold for years as his wry wit and unassuming personality won over our hearts.  Ask anyone who experienced his healing touch and you will hear some miraculous testimonies of the effectiveness of his techniques.  Seldom has The Whole Life Network had a more successful event.  It was so good and the response so immediate, that we are planning on having a return engagement in approximately six months.

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Peaceful Contributions for the Soul
by Kathy Gates

  Walking in nature is a good way to discover the five senses. The five senses are the gateways to a deeper understanding of oneself.

Find a place in nature where you can walk amongst the trees, near a stream or by a lake. Where everything is in it's natural state. Bring a notebook and pencil or pen along with you.

  Begin by looking around, SEE everything as it is, without judgment, just notice. SEE yourself as you are, walk to a nearby stream or lake, SEE your reflection in the water. What do you SEE, when you look at your reflection? Write in your journal or notebook five things you could SEE with your eyes about this reflection. What did you notice around this reflection? Don't judge what you write. Look around and SEE all the beauty in all of nature and know you are a part of that beauty.

Next listen with your ears HEAR the sounds of the birds, or listen to the sound of silence, for even in silence there is a Universal Sound. Notice the sound of your footsteps as you walk along, HEAR the sound of your breath moving in and out of your body. In your journal or notebook write down five things that you heard as you walked along in nature. Include sounds that came from you. Notice that all life has its own certain sound if you listen. HEAR the songs of nature.

Continue walking, think about TASTE, focus on your tongue that muscle covered with many small bundles of taste buds with many nerve endings. In your minds eye think of five things you enjoy the taste of. Close your eyes and imagine the TASTE of something bitter, something salty, something sweet, what did you come up with? TASTE lets us know if our food is good or not. It has a perfect purpose, just like us.

Moving along, take a big breath in through your nose. Our nose helps us to know more about the world we live in. List 5 things you can SMELL as you walk.

Enjoy what it has for us such as the SMELL of a rose, or the nice green smell telling us spring is here. We all share aroma through the gift of flowers. Have gratitude for the gift of SMELL.

Take a break on your nature walk to TOUCH, feel through the nerve ending of your skin. We receive so much information about what is around and outside of us through TOUCH. Touch the soft bark of an aspen tree compared to the rough bark of a pine. Notice the different textures of leaves. The nerve endings send messages to our brains about what we are feeling. Hot and cold, light and dark, big or small. Write about five things you experienced through touching during your nature walk.

Getting closely connected with our senses helps us to improve our creativity and brings greater understanding of ourselves and others, and the world around us.

Our Creator gave us the gifts to experience life in all its fullness.

May you find joy, love, happiness and peace in your world.

Come and enjoy a walk on our Walk in Balance with Mother Earth trail at Women's Spirit Retreat-located above Cedaredge – womensspiritretreats.com

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Enhancing Fertility
© Anne Calzada Herbalist

  Spring is here, officially March 20th, and Mother Earth is awakened by Father Sun's energy. Renewal and rebirth are present. Seeds are consciously and carefully planted. The Earth is fertile with possibility! What a great time to think about fertility! Becoming pregnant is actually a miracle! Not all couples are able to become pregnant and for different reasons. Sometimes there may be a physical reason why conception does not occur in either the man or the woman. Low sperm count in men, lack of ovulation, a tilted uterus or even blocked fallopian tubes can contribute to infertility. Sometimes there may even be a chemical response in the women's body that creates antibodies against the sperm. Sometimes it may be none of the above at all.

Staying away from drugs such as alcohol, cigarettes, pharmaceuticals and coffee are encouraged for both partners. Marijuana is known to lower sperm count in men. Beware of hormone-induced meats; hormone laced dairy products, endocrine disrupting plastics and chemicals that seem to be ever present.

The body requires the availability for certain vitamins and minerals for starters. In terms of nutrition, men require zinc, as it is lost through ejaculation. Vitamin E is important for both sexes. A balanced multivitamin and mineral supplement is highly recommended before conception and through pregnancy to ensure health of yourself and the baby. Plenty of fresh pure water and juices such as carrot are great. Eat foods that represent growth such as seeds, sprouts and eggs. For instance pumpkin seeds are one of the richest sources of zinc and they also contain vitamin E! Cleansing the body and giving attention to the liver and kidneys may be necessary before attempting conception. Remember that the kidneys govern the reproductive organs. The kidneys prefer being warm as opposed to coldness. Incorporate a balance of yin/yang foods. Yang is warmer, dryer, and sunnier. Yin is cooler, wetter and darker. Yang foods are eggs, root vegetables, fish, and meats. Yin foods are milk, fruit, sugar and nightshade vegetables for example. Drinking a daily herbal tonic tea is great for giving the body minerals, while cleansing the blood, toning the liver and kidneys. Tonic herbs would be nettles, red clover or red raspberry. Teas are a great way to use herbs when you are thinking of becoming pregnant or already are. The ceremony of making the tea and sitting down, relaxing and enjoying the moment would certainly do anyone good. You can even add your tea to your bathwater for an added delight. Some herbs are recommended for conception and during pregnancy and others are contraindicated. Consulting with a midwife, herbalist or health professional skilled in the use of herbs is encouraged when wanting to use them with pregnancy.

Herbs can be helpful when there is a hormonal balance in either sex. For women, herbs like red clover, dong quai and chaste tree berry (Vitex agnus-castus) may be helpful in balancing hormonal signals and thus regulating ovulation and menstruation.

For men the herbs saw palmetto and fo-ti are helpful for balancing hormones and increasing sperm count and mobility. Gingko is helpful for circulation, therefore being appropriate for impotence due to lack of circulation.

True essential oil of rose is costly albeit, known to increase sperm count in men. It also relieves frigidity, fear, calms the heart and is a famous aphrodisiac.10 to 12 drops in 1 oz. of almond oil would be recommended for regular massage. It is best to avoid all essential oils after conception. Flower essences may be of help as well. Essences such as rose, pomegranate, angelica and other blends are available to focus on conception.

Rose quartz gem essence is indicated. Acupuncture, reflexology, chiropractic adjustments, reiki sessions and massage are all very beneficial when trying to become pregnant for both men and women. These practices balance and align the meridians of the body and enhance your own life force. I recommend the flowing books for more education on the principles of conception and fertility. "Your fertility signals" by Merryl Winstein and "The language of fertility" by Navari Payne. All God's blessings in creation!

Anne Calzada is a Certified Herbalist and founder of Healing Heart Herbs. Her products can be found at Food For Thought in Ridgway and at other fine natural health outlets. For  consultations or classes she may be reached at 626-5663 or by email annecalzada@aol.com).

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When Shouts Replace Whispers
by Earl Sires

  I am thinking this morning of the tsunami of Christmas past, which, until it is replaced by a natural disaster far greater and more devastating, will serve as the defining image for generations to come of natures utterly astonishing power to destroy and reshape Earth and the vast Universe surrounding our happy little globe. Say “tsunami” in far years to come, say it anywhere on Earth, and all those within earshot will immediately conjure up the terrifying images of water relentlessly spreading across the islands carrying with it masses of humanity's crumpled little toys sweeping away lives and the life that was. Say “tsunami” and our collective thoughts will immediately transport to the vast Indian Ocean and the earthquake/tsunami of December 25/26. That’s when Mother Nature, dropping her tendency to talk in whispers, spoke with a resounding shout.

It seems to me that the tsunami and its aftermath say, this time as with a megaphone, what at least five preceding major events - World Wars I & 2, the advent of the atomic bomb, travel to the moon and the felling of the Trade Center Towers - have been saying with increasing volume: that the human species is being drawn into a global community.  Like it or not, this seems to be the case. Nations no longer enjoy the privilege of going it alone in isolation from one’s neighbors. We called the two big wars of early last century “World Wars” even though there were large areas of the world uninvolved or indirectly so. Nevertheless, especially in the second of those two wars, it was increasingly apparent that their scope involved most of the world. Those two wars spawned global institutions which, flawed as they were and are, still found us hobbling along toward greater collaboration. Travels to the moon made it possible to see our home planet as a whole, without borders. It revealed the beauty and wonder of Earth herself, and astronauts like Edgar Mitchell came back with new perspectives on our unity as citizens of Earth. The atomic bomb along with its “cold war” of necessity drew us together and reminded us of how what one does has implications for all. Other factors, especially the technologies of flight and communication, furthered the process.

In 2001, when the towers fell, the entire world watched and for a brief moment joined in the shock and grief. There was a feeling of global solidarity. The world suffered with us and offered us condolences. There was a great outpouring in our land of aid to those who suffered directly, all birthed by an upsurge of fellow feeling. And while we gazed with horror on the face of humanity at its worst we also caught sight through the smoky dust and tears of the face of humanity at its best, the face of compassion. Both visions told us we were one global family. But the feeling and the vision of humanity at its best soon faded and the shadow of revenge and retaliation replaced the brighter look.

That was then. This is now, and on the other side of the world, another part of the global family has sustained a terrible blow, sweeping away whole cities and more than a hundred and fifty thousand souls, this time from as many as half a dozen countries in the main and some additionally from countries around the world. The scientists tell us the tsunami wave ultimately reached every ocean and sea around the world, though in diminished force. As a result of this utterance of nature, an utterance of majestic force, the six billion citizens of the world have endured a blow that commands our attention. We have looked on with utter awe, watching vast stretches of water roll on relentlessly through great expanses of terrain carrying with it boats, cars, the shattered parts of buildings, trees, boulders and the bodies of the unsuspecting, We have, once the shock has passed, felt the same overwhelming grief and sympathy we felt in September of 2001, and with one rising wave of compassion, this time, have responded out of the heart of compassion.

The Global Community has created a wave of compassionate response to match the magnitude of the tsunami! In the process it has taken one step closer to creating itself. We have taken small steps before. This one was BIG. The tsunami spoke us awake. It aroused us to who we can be. Indeed to who we really are: a Global Community. It is time we recognize and affirm this fact and begin to act upon it more intentionally. Time for foreign policy to seque into domestic policy for the entire world community. Time for us to realize that the only “home security” is global security. Time to leave “tribalism”, “separatism”, and even “nationalism” behind. Time to develop a wider “patriotism” that understands us all to be citizens of one planet. Time to become citizens of the Universe living on and loving Planet Earth. Time to begin building the new future for the human race. Time to become a new kind of human being.

It is time because that is where the evolutionary process is taking us. Mother Earth knows what she is doing better than we do. It is time we listened more intently to her whispers.

To Be Continued.

(Editor's note: For the past six months we have been carrying a series of articles by Earl Sires on his recent travels. This article interrupts that sequence to interject his thoughts on the current global metamorphosis.)

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ReConnections: A Look Back
The heritage of The Whole Life Network from the pages of Connections.

One Year Ago**”Thanks to Megan Grey Wolf and Noaloni Terry the Friday Night Forum speaker series is off to a flying successful start in 2004”

**Dr. Jerry Overton wrote about forgiveness in family disputes, “ The sad fact of the matter is that that is just too big an order (forgiveness) for far too many.  Instead they continue to focus on the negative experiences and hold onto the pain, and, rather than take responsibility for their healing , they persist in blaming the parent for their misery”.

Five Years Ago**”The sixth annual Health and Wellness Fair is here.  As co-organizer for this event (Kate Kissingford & Suzanne Ziglar), I have had the joy and pleasure of helping it take shape.”

**Tom Farnham reported on the dangers of microwave radiation, “We are living in a toxic soup of energy waves, which conflict with the natural frequencies in our bodies, causing distortions leading to various kinds of disesases…”.

Ten Years Ago**”The Whole Life Network is pleased to report that the husband and wife team of Larry Dossey, M.D. and Barbara Dossey, R.N., will be our featured speakers for the fifth annual WLN Symposium,…”

**Robert and Cindy Sullivan commented on the Spring Equinox, “…, take a little time to consider what you want to experience in your life this year, and from what “bonds” you wish to be released.  Evaluate what habits you want to cultivate, and what needs to “weeded” out.”

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Risings
by Dr. Jerry Overton

As Easter approaches—that season of rising to new life—I share with you a true story of a woman (whom I’ll call Joan) who I met a few years back. Perhaps it will give you reason to rise from whatever death-dealing experiences life has dealt you.

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Michael was the light of Joan's life. He was her first and only son, and was precious to her. And all the more so after her husband had been killed in the car accident that she and Michael survived. Perhaps that's why it was all the more devastating that night when the policeman came to her door to inform her that her son had been killed by a recently released psychopathic murderer.

For no apparent reason, her son had been accosted on his way home from work, and shot point blank, execution-style, in the back of the head. At the news, Joan almost lost consciousness. And for days afterward, she went around the house in shock. She couldn't eat, sleep, nor even think about her work.

Then, one night Joan had a dream in which she saw herself confronting her son's killer. But instead of lashing out at him and tearing him limb from limb, as she would have imagined, she heard herself speaking words of forgiveness to him. Joan awoke in a sweat, terrified at the thought of seeing Michael's killer face to face.

Mostly, she was afraid of what she might want to do to him—of the terrifying rage within her. But, as she thought about the dream, especially the part of forgiving the killer, she noticed a peace come over her that surprised her. She knew that for the sake of her own sanity, and the memory of her precious son, she had to forgive his killer.

That afternoon, she was on the phone to the prison where the killer was incarcerated. After several lengthy meetings with the warden, she convinced him to let her see the man who killed her son.

On the day of the visit, Joan still wondered if she could go through with it. She was frightened, but still convinced of what she had to do.

The guard escorted her to the visiting area where she waited for her son's killer to appear. When she saw him approach on the other side of the glass, she was shocked at what she saw. She had expected to see this savage beast, but instead she saw the face of another human being, not unlike her son.

At first, words came awkwardly, then more easily. As tears of grief streamed down her cheeks, she told him of her deep love for her son, and of the devastation of losing him. Then, to her surprise, she heard herself ask about his life—how it was for him growing up. The story he related stunned her. Abused sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally from his earliest memories, he had been left with virtually no regard for life. In fact, he told her that his greatest feeling of personal power came precisely at the moment he had stood over her son and pulled the trigger.

His story shook Joan deeply, but instead of outrage, compassion washed over her, and tears filled her eyes again—tears not only of her own loss, but tears for this stranger and the loss of life that he too had suffered. Then, to her surprise, she lifted her hand to the window as if to touch this one who had brought her such heartache, and said to him, "I forgive you."

At that instant an amazing thing happened. On what had been a stone-cold expression on the face of a killer, Joan could see a tiny tear at the corner of his left eye. And a compassion like Joan had never experienced, even before her son's murder, flooded her soul.

Joan has since visited the man several times, and even the guards have noticed a change in him. And Joan has never known such deep and lasting peace.

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Jesus said: "But I say to you that hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you…Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven."

Copyright 2005   Dr. Jerry D. Overton

Jerry is a marriage and family therapist, a Master Certified Coach, and Director of The Center for Personal and Spiritual Growth. He can be reached at 970-252-9311, and he welcomes your call!

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